Wednesday, 4 November 2015

ThoughtBubble: The mindset of cheaters? Part 1

I'm posting this here because it has got me thinking and questioning. I reckon I should quit as a teacher and be a Private Investigator instead (jokes. Not really.) Anyway, this is a story I heard and it naturally got me curious and made me question how Cheaters think. Writing it out, I might be able to figure out and maybe get more insight on this.



*Story time*

Sarah and John are childhood sweethearts. After their breakup, John finds a new gf, Kelly. Their relationship is a getting a bit rocky. However, John still cheats on Kelly with Sarah (1). Sarah tells Kelly what has been going on and Kelly breaks up with John. Neither Sarah nor Kelly are talking to John but both girls are now friends. 

Fast forward to one year later. John is now dating this new girl called Mary. This new relationship has been rocky from the start. Sarah messages John out of the blue. Take into consideration that John and Sarah have not been speaking for over a year. Sarah asks John if he would like to take things into the bedroom with her. John agrees. 


So.....


I have a few questions. Namely, why did Sarah come back. A few theories. 

1) She's desperate for a good shag. But then again, she has mentioned that she has sexual relations with other boys. And when John asks her to quit her "nighttime activities" she readily agreed. Maybe she agreed because she was actually fond of John? But when neither Sarah nor Kelly were talking to him, Sarah was raging about him on social platforms saying how "irresponsible" and "disgusting" he was. 

2) She's a relationship wrecker. She came in towards the end of John and Kelly's already rocky relationship and destroyed it. She's just come in towards the impending end of John and Mary's relationship too. Could it be that she might not really want John but instead wants him to be with no other girl? Hence she makes herself "vulnerable" and "available" to tempt him to cheat on whichever girl he's with at the moment for her. 

And it just so happens my word of the day is "Honeyfuggle" which means "to entice or deceive by flattery or sweet talk" 


Stay tuned for more updates and more story time. 


Lots of Sugar
Nicabeth 

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